I SECRETLY HATE MY WORKMATE

Admit it or not:  
"we restraint ourselves from becoming a villain to others, but in fact, this makes us a normal human being."




In the world where your dreams are made of, we get to meet people who will become part of it.  This individual may either make you or break you!

However, there are signs that eventually you'll be able to notice and confirm. In the same manner, these are also the signs which makes you despised someone in particular. 

Honestly,

"The hardest part is... when someone you hate doesn't even know you don't give a f#%&8 to them."
We all know this is something we wish we don't have in our dictionary and what's most annoying is that this mortal seems to enjoy your company and in every single day at work he/she likes being attached with you! Like a dog...

I HATE YOU!!!

Well that was easy? tho this may look you're becoming the bad person in the story. How we wished that we could say these three-words easily to that person 
But then, The question is... "How did it happen that we despised someone all of a sudden?"

Here are some of the undeniable reasons why all of a sudden we came to hate that person:






HATE AT FIRST SIGHT
According to million study...

Most of us already experience this kind of phenomena in our character, which results to misunderstanding and failure to teamwork. 

The fact that physical appearance and first impression matters.

PERSONALITIES CLASH! 

Personality clashes occur when two (or more) people find themselves in conflict not over a particular issue or incident, but due to a fundamental incompatibility in their personalities, their approaches to things, their style of life.

A personality clash may occur in work-related, family-related, or social situations.

-W

FEELING INSECURE

Everyone feels insecure from time to time, perhaps particularly in certain situations. You may feel that you’re not as attractive, intelligent, or well-situated in life as you could be. Comparing yourself to the people around you can make you feel even worse.

-Psychology Today

TOO MUCH ATTACHMENT,
 IT GETS ANNOYING!

We occasionally become friends with someone whom we like at first, but soon start to become annoying. You don't want to hurt their feelings, but you don't want to hang around them for too much longer,

By saying nothing, you will get more of the same, so you'll end up suffering in silence. Instead, draw a line and make it clear you aren't going to partake in things that annoy you, behave in a way you find immature or listen to stories that bug you, etc.

PERFECTION AND EXPECTATION

Do you seek perfection? Does everything you do need to be flawless—without possible failure? If so, your pursuit of perfection might be holding you back.

Perfectionism means setting our goals too high and having unrealistic expectations. Being allergic to failure is often driven by an underlying sense of shame. If we can achieve some lofty goal and be perfectly successful, then no one can shame us.

The biggest disappointments in our lives are often the result of misplaced expectations.  This is especially true when it comes to our relationships and interactions with others.Tempering your expectations of other people will greatly reduce unnecessary frustration and suffering, in both your life and theirs, and help you refocus on the things that truly matter.

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REFERENCES:
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/fulfillment-any-age/201507/why-we-feel-insecure-and-how-we-can-stop
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/intimacy-path-toward-spirituality/201601/do-you-expect-too-much-yourself
http://www.wikihow.com/Get-Rid-of-One-of-Your-Annoying-Friends
http://www.marcandangel.com/2013/09/29/7-things-you-should-stop-expecting-from-others/
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I Fell in Love with a Librarian

   

I Fell in Love with a Librarian 

Every time when I open that door , I always wish that you're the first person I see,

the more that I can't wait  to hear your Shh! Shh! Shh!

Those are the sweetest words that I can't wait to hear, after I slept those subjects that I can't stand and fear.

I don't know but there's something different about her looks,

that made me pretend to read these Harry Potter books.

So I can stay longer...

long enough to see you more,

maybe someday you will realize,

I'm the one you're looking for.

I got very jealous  with that guy flirting you,

which makes me punch the person next to me.

And then you came to scold me!

because this nerd beside me shouted that I'm a bully.

Promise not bring me to the Discipline Office, 

"Please I'm begging you not to do that,"

Because I was hoping our first date would be in a Mountain Park,

where we can sit down and talk a lot.

So I can get to know you even more!

A girl behind those glasses,

Would make me believe in Forevermore.

Suddenly that nerd push me hard and ran abort,

accidentally my body pushed you and we fell.

I caught your head with my arms and shoulders,

I was so afraid that you might get hurt.

I heard you whisper, "Thank you"

And then I said, "I love You".

Out of nowhere, my mouth uttered those three words.

I wish to say sorry,

But how can I hide this feeling anymore,

When this time you make me worry.

I want to check on you, be with you, and surrounded by you.

But yesterday you replied nothing and left,
My heart cried that day, you stole everything like a theft.

I never came back to see you until Graduation Day has come,

I was hoping to sneak on you for the last time.

So I open that door once again to check if you can still be mine.

I love what I saw,  everything has never change.

You're still that girl that catches everyone's attention.

It seems that time never came to age.

Luckily you came to my direction...

I have waited for this event to happen again...

So I can say sorry and apologize...

And ask you question that made me realize...

Excuse me! You're blocking the way, she said.

but I told her to use the other door...
Even though I wanted to tell everything,
The things that revolve in my head.

Who are you? She asked.

I whispered, (Well you and me are the main cast)

I wanted to return something I have just borrowed,
My most precious heart for you cupid has arrowed. 

She excused herself,

but before she left,

I looked at her face closely,

I can't accept suddenly she became sad and lonely.

My heart melts to see her like that,

I wanted to kill the person that made you feel that way.

I thought who would not beg you to stay?

I looked back and saw her eyes locked at me,

Tears are falling and it feels very heavy

It's between I couldn't say anything or
I couldn't think of anything right,
 so I ran after her so fast
and started to hug her so tight.

I told her that everything is going to be fine,

because I'm here to give you Sunshine!

I will try to make you happy everyday,
until I make sure you're feeling okay.

That moment was the most memorable,

because that very special moment with my dear,

She whispered those words I longed to hear❤

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